"Men my age are too immature. My current arrangement is wonderful. Unlike other cash strapped students, I am pampered with expensive gifts. My sugar daddy is the sweetest man I know. He is my mentor, my benefactor and my lover." - College Sophomore
What's An Arrangement?
An Arrangement is short for "Mutually Beneficial Relationship" or "Mutually Beneficial Arrangement" between two people. At Seeking Arrangement, we believe that successful relationships are all "Mutually Beneficial Relationships" or "Mutually Beneficial Arrangements" in that they are two way street, i.e., two people giving as much as they take from each other. Essentially, SeekingArrangement.com is a website for arrangement seekers or arrangement finders who are interested in "Mutually Beneficial Dating"
Unfortunately, most regular relationships aren't mutually beneficial in nature. If you are in a relationship where you feel used, or taken advantage of, you are most likely in a one-sided relationship where you are giving more than you are receiving.
Brandon Wade, our Founder and a leading dating expert, believes that successful relationships are formed out of two people being brutally honest with each other – about who they are, what they want and what they can offer. No matter what your reasons are for using Seeking Arrangement, know that out of brutal honesty comes a deep and genuine level of understanding, and sometimes true love.
So no matter what you are seeking whether it is love, companionship, friendship or some financial help, and whether it will be for a short-term, long-term or life-long arrangement, we hope you will find the perfect match here. Remember, it takes time to find your perfect soul-mate, but because you only live once, you ought to have fun while looking for that special someone.
It's Natural...
Let's face it... It's human nature for successful people to want younger and more attractive partners. It's also natural for younger men & women to seek out more experienced, sophisticated, wealthy and generous partners, specifically those who have the means of providing them with comforts and luxuries.
Anthropologist will tell you that these tendencies are ingrained in our genes. It is only human instinct to be attracted to beauty, as it is to be attracted to wealth and power.
Tens of thousands of years ago, when humans were cavemen and cavewomen, we were doing exactly the same thing. Except, back then, men who were the best hunters were the sugar daddies of their times.
While some societies may have laid down a set of unsaid rules about what is morally acceptable (be it an acceptable age gap between lovers, extra-marital affairs, or pre-marital sex), who is to say what is "right" or "wrong"? In the past, women have weighed heavy a man's social and economical status when choosing a suitor or lover.
At Seeking Arrangement, we know that You only live once and that you only live once... so if you possess either beauty or generosity, why not explore what it may be like to find an ideal arrangement today.
Common Terms Defined
Sugar Daddy: The modern sugar daddy is a successful and generous man who is willing to pamper and offer financial help or gifts to a young person in return for friendship and companionship.
Sugar Mommy: The modern sugar mommy or sugar momma is a successful and generous woman who is willing to pamper and offer financial help or gifts to a young person in return for friendship and companionship.
Sugar Baby: A sugar baby is an attractive, ambitious and goal oriented individual who has a lot to offer. He or she is generally younger and is looking to meet wealthy, successful and generous people who are willing to pamper and offer financial assistance or gifts in return for their friendship or companionship.