With the official start of spring only days away, many seekers have already noticed more newbie sugars than usual. Now might be a good time to get ready for the hotter months ahead in the Sugarbowl…
“It’s almost Spring here, I’m so happy
” - Kitty
Does your sugarlife need any Spring cleaning?
How do you agree on the length of time an arrangement will last?
Do you have any plans for the weekend? Does anyone have a Spring Break arrangement in the works?
“SDs – who is your favorite Bond Girl?
SBs- who is your favorite Bond? ” – Midwest
WE MISS YOU ANNA
8 years ago, finding sugar on TV wasn’t so easy. Back in 2002, the late Anna Nicole Smith served as TV’s most well-known sugar in her self-titled reality show, but she wasn’t always everyone’s favorite SB role-model.
Well the times they have a’changed. Sugar baby and sugar daddy reality stars like Kim Zolciak of “The Real Housewives of Atlanta” are bringing their own flavor to the sugar-pop-culture zeitgeist. New sugar shows in the works include Logo’s formerly named “Kept” (now titled “The Gay Socialites of New York”), as well as ABC’s scripted “Cougar Town”, starring Courteney Cox as a 40 year old cougar with a 17 year old son.
MODERN FAMILY (sugar-character: JAY PRITCHETT, aka Al Bundy from “Married with Children”)
COUGAR TOWN
MILLIONAIRE MATCHMAKER
REAL HOUSEWIVES OF ATLANTA
REAL HOUSEWIVES OF ORANGE COUNTY
THE GAY SOCIALITES OF NEW YORK
**What other sugar worthy TV shows, characters or personalities should be added to the list?**
If you were the star of your own sugar reality show, what would it be called?
What are some fast ways a sugar daddy or sugar baby can step up their game? Re-arrange profile pics? Upgrade to premium?
NEW: “Do you feel guilty when you know there are small children in your sugar’s life, since theoretically they could be expending those resources (time/energy/money) on the kids, somehow…?” – Lilly
Many sugar daddies and sugar babies have said that sugar dating can be a much welcome escape from ‘real life’.
As stated by SA founder and CEO Brandon Wade, the bowl is “all about fun”…
“Sugarworld is still a fantasy for me” - sugarbarbie
When are you happiest as a sugar?
How do you feel when asked to send more pics to a potential sugar ? Turned off?
Lots of newbie sugar daddies and sugar babies wonder how long it will take to find a mutually beneficial arrangement, yet unfortunately, success is hard to predict in Sugarland.
There are plenty of wise sugars on this blog who have noticed patterns in their sugar dating life, such as the best days of the week to email potential sugars, when to update profile pictures, and how to tell if a potential sugar is ‘real’ or ‘fake’.
Do you have any helpful hints for newbie sugar daddies or sugar babies?
How long have you been sugar dating?
What is your idea of a perfect arrangement?
All things in life are naturally balanced, albeit not always evenly. In ‘traditional’ relationships, each partner must balance their love life with work, school, family and endless other variables.
College, kids, boyfriends, wives, and careers are just a fraction of what many sugars balance day after day.
Sugar can be the perfect glazing between a stressful love life and career, as many here have said, “I’m seeking someone to take the stress away” , and there’s no doubt that sugars have been known to do just that.
I would like my SD to take my stress away. I know that I want to do that for him as well! But, just the fact that you WANT to makes a HUGE impact. - OCSugarBaby
When do you find time for sugar?
How does the sugar melt with the rest of your life?
Has a sugar daddy or sugar baby taken some of your stress away lately? Care to share?
Since the earlier days of the economic downturn, we’ve heard stories from sugar daddies and babies who have had to make adjustments to their sugarlife as a result of the changing financial climate. Some sugar daddies have had to reduce the amount of support they provide, while others have switched from sugar daddy to sugar baby altogether.
Sugar babies have also adapted to the narrowing field of surplus. Some sugar babies have teamed up with other SB’s in ’sugar-sister arrangements’; in which if one sugar baby finds an arrangement, she splits some of her benefits with her sugar-sister, and vice versa - increasing the likelihood that both will get some relief.
How have you fared during the economic sag? How has it affected your sugar dating?
How does sugar play into your long-term goals?
While having fun is at the heart of what SeekingArrangement is for, the joy isn’t meant to be one-sided. There have been reports of sugar dating game-players on both ends of the spectrum, and for the victims of some players, it’s not until the game’s over until they knew they were playing.
Yet having a “playa” mentality isn’t the same as playing games according to many sugars. In fact, having a “playa” mentality in Sugarland is thought to be one way of keeping the heart-strings from developing in a no-strings-attached arrangement…
“Lets just take it as a learning experience…. for my self… I am really becoming a little hard in heart. Almost “playa” mentality. Sounds bad, but it protects me from the “what’s wrong with me” mentality. I am confident with me, I think a am absolutely “Fierce”. A lot of these jokers want looks and no brains. I am the first to say lets have fun… but they seem to get it twisted and expect more just because they have $$$, or just dismiss. Just as there will always be women sweating them, there will always be another CM sweating me.” -2Chic
Do you think it’s wise to have a “playa” mentality to avoid becoming too emotionally attached with a sugar?
Have you ever felt like you got ‘played’ by a sugar daddy or sugar baby? Care to share?
What have you found interesting about a sugar lately?
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Every location offers different opportunities for sugars to enjoy themselves, and whether you’re in New York or Barcelona, there have been sugars before you who have found the local destinations most enjoyable for them.
What would you recommend for sugars in your city, state, and/or country?
What are some ways to break the ice with a new sugar?
Do you have any fun sugar spots or activities in your neck of the woods?
How are you?
On SeekingArrangement, sugar daddies, sugar mamas, and sugar babies come in every age, size, shape, color and flavor. Yet many of us question our sugar credentials…
Well as it turns out, the blog has had a big star as one of its long-time lurkers, and she’s come out of sugarblog obscurity to send a message. What we can reveal of her identity at this time is limited, but she’s sure of what she wants and feels strongly that all of us should too. Here is her advice to a questioning sugar baby:
Question from ‘FoxSugar43′:
I had a sugar daddy once when I was in my late teens, but otherwise, I would consider myself new to this sort of scenario.
With all that in mind, I am wondering if being in my early 40’s I can expect the attention of any sugar daddies? I am in Southern California. I have composed a concise, warm and informative profile and have included three recent, clear photos. I expect my profile to be approved by this time tomorrow.
Response from (to be announced):
Now you are living in Southern California which- correct me if I am wrong- is where they keep Hollywood and that means, automatically, you get to subtract ten years from your age. Moreover, if the camera puts ten pounds on you, you have an advantage because, the more you eat, the bigger a star you will be. And don’t forget Beverly Hills and Rodeo Drive either. Also that nobody even remembers how many times people like Elizabeth Taylor got married after she was forty or fifty or sixty or how much it cost even though I’m sure it was millions. And she didn’t even need it! So you just rethink that information you put out there and don’t be tooo informative- men do not deserve the truth after the way they’ve behaved through history. Why! Just look at the word: history. his story. See what I mean? What about her story, huh? What I always say is, there are always two sides to everything, and if bein; two-sided is gonna get us that condo we have our eye on, or that Rolls convertible, or that stock portfolio, well… let the chips fall where they may as long as it’s in our direction.Besides, what they say is, ‘Forty is the new thirty’ and if you’re in a new scenario, it means nobody knows you yet and, believe me, speaking as one who’s been 86′ed from more places than you could shake a stick at, there are always more fish in the sea. So you just put on your adorable little Southern California short shorts and work your new scenario, honey. California is where the 49′ers went to manifest destiny and, if they did it and founded a State, you can man-i-fest it too and get your share of the pie. And when you do, don’t forget your dear old Goddess Gwendelynne Faye ’cause I am rootin’ for you! Go get ‘em!***
