Sugar daddies and sugar babies are prize targets for scammers and frauds – people who take advantage of sweet, honest, and fair people seeking a mutually beneficial arrangement. While most sugars here are nobodies fool, it’s still important to never send personal information, money, or access to the intimate self with anyone who you don’t have a good reason to trust. Here are a few of the different types of Bad Daddies and Babies to watch out for…
Fake Check Daddies
There have been several reports of ’sugar daddies’ who have used checks to pay for items given to sugar babies, only for the sugar babies to find out later that the checks were either fake or cancelled shortly after being issued. In situations like these, it’s the sugar baby who is often the one left paying the bill.
Poser Mommies
There have been reports of ’sugar mamas’ that are seeking arrangements with their husbands, yet in reality it’s only the husbands that are seeking the arrangements, and the wife (if there is one) had no idea she was a sugar mommy. This isn’t meant to discourage anyone from communicating with legitimate sugar couples – there are plenty out there – but know that this is one type of sugar scam to look out for.
Fake Identity Babies (FIB’s)
One of the main reasons SeekingArrangement discourages sugar daddies from sending money to anyone on the site before they meet, is because of FIB’s (fake identity babies). Many FIB’s will ask a sugar daddy to wire them money before the 1st meet, only to become poof babies when it’s time for them to show up on a date.
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? What are the warning signs you look out for?
Do you have any tips for fellow sugar daddies or sugar babies on how to avoid playing the fool in Sugarland?
Do you have any sugar news to report?
**extra: click HERE to read ‘Sugar Dating is a Game of Odds‘ by SincereSD**
Tags: sugar baby scam, sugar daddy common sense, sugar daddy scam
Ok I am here and no one wants to …. have fun tonight????
Where is everyone?
gonna answer the questions i guess….
I’m here too, Beach Girl!!
Sugar news to report….Meeting a pot for lunch on Wednesday a few towns over from mine. We’ve swapped emails back and forth, and he sounds ALMOST as good as the blog daddies
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? What are the warning signs you look out for?
No , didn’t get that yet and hopefully never!
Do you have any tips for fellow sugar daddies or sugar babies on how to avoid playing the fool in Sugarland?
Not really…. just trust your instincts and be safe, always
Do you have any sugar news to report?
No Sugar news
girls you have to tell us if there is a new blog
Dulcinea~ woo hooo girl… Good for you!
hey SDA is not here yet have girls to myself…lol
JSO~ I thought I was all alone
I made everyone run away again…. lol
Ah Ha! The girls are over here… acting like they didn’t know poor JSO and I were all alone in the old blog…
damn it HEF is back.
SDA you really should go to midwest meet and greet. Also march is texas if you want to get with me.
BG – I’m pretty excited…. And, bonus, he doesn’t want to meet at the walmart parking lot! We’re actually having a meal!
JSO~ wait there is another meet and greet in March? wow I have been away from the blog too long…. or maybe I should re-read when i get here….
ATX:
Sorry but no pics.
Beach:
I know I can depend on you girls to deliver your promises …
Good God, the blog is active tonight!
JSO, I’d love to go Chicago is where a lot of my family are. I just don’t know if I can. I’m taking off a lot of work already the week before to go to the national championship game in LA. I’ll also likely be hanging out with at least LASB and any other babe who makes it out that way.
March, however I’d be into helping set up. What city are you thinking (and why)?
yes silly there is another meet in march. I am going to make SDA help out with it since all the chicks dig him.
SDA everything is bigger in TEXAS. Houston. stay at gallariea to show SB’s what a real mall is.
shoot me a line to talk justbob370 at the yah place
Mina:
Hey! How’re you doing?
and since it is late. we need the blog SB’s to help us guys out on SB stuff. Never ever discount a girl that is a friend to help you out with another girl(its just like challaging chicks to a volloyball game with guys against girls they will kick your ass everytime.)
JSO~ Wow, that is awesome… i think you did mention once about a meet but i didn’t hear anything else about it…. I wish i could go to all….
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? What are the warning signs you look out for?
Not that I can recall. Just your run of the mill “send a check to Nigeria” scammers. (Joking)
Do you have any tips for fellow sugar daddies or sugar babies on how to avoid playing the fool in Sugarland?
It’s simple… If you have any doubts/red flags about someone – then you’re gut feeling is probably right. So often I see posts about an SD wanting to fly an SB to him, but the SB is hesitant and doesn’t seem to have a clue. That wasn’t supposed to criticize or sound harsh, just pointing out that when it boils down to it – you are meeting a stranger in a different/unfamiliar city who not only knows what you look like, but has your full name as well. So be careful, darlings
Do you have any sugar news to report?
I’m going to see my SD for the third week in a row! Mind you, he and I live in different states – so there is quite a physical distance between us (ahem, NYGent… It can be done
Dulcinea:
Good luck!
TXSB
How have you been?
Good as gold
Dulcinea – Wish you the best on your meet!
JSO – I hope that is just a temporary name…
If in Houston – Lisa can come!
SDN – Is it possible to send out an email with who all is potentially coming on the 12th?
I’d love to go, but not sure if I can do it financially yet. *crossing fingers I get the contract job I am bidding on*
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? Do test drives count?
Do you have any sugar news to report?
Looking forward to my New Years Eve weekend…
Ok blog babes, what would you rather visit? A city with a massive mall that is unlike most malls, or a city with an infamous crazy wild night life?
SDinATX~ shopping or wild night life?!?!? how to choose!!!!!
Photo~ You need to come….. You need too!
sda are you talking about 6th street(bar, tatto palor, bar tatto palor etc….and then we have to stay at the driskill
ATX – Crazy wild night life for me. *whispers* I don’t like shopping that much. Ssssshhhhhh!!!
Sincere ~ did you get the mail???? Also are you going to Chicago?
SDA email me please
Mina:
Doing good. Btw, happy to hear your SD news.
Photo:
Sending you good vibes on the job.
Re: Galleria
Its only fun if you have $ to spend. Otherwise its a bit depressing….
I’m telling you 6th street, Austin, Driskill Hotel and if people want to do shopping during the day, The Dominion is pretty damn popular for it.
Wait, Beach Girl are you going to Chicago?
I think so…..
JSO, I did check your junk mail.
Thanks, TXSB
I read the comments on the previous post (as much as I could at least) and it seems I missed out on an awful lot. What happened with you and Realistic? E-mail me, I don’t think I have yours saved!
hmmm… we need to get TXSB there then!
Photo~ what’s your profile ???? If your in for the group , I need to know if We can make out?
*sleepy smile*
hey there sugars…
I just woke up *grumble*grumble*grumble* I suppose I can’t make coffee at almost 1am. mer.
Yay for those with upcoming sugar plans. Just when I had considered deleting the line on my profile about being addicted to honey nut cheerios… hmmmm…
SDinATX- I love malls. But I find that stores like Macy’s seem to just follow me wherever I go. So I have no need to go to a place with a ginormous mall. I also don’t really need a crazy wild night life either. Although I do like to kick it with my girlies every now and again.
I am a boring girl. Gimme a jazz club. Gimme a cool spot where i can people watch. *shrug* A place where they know how to make a killer pomegranate martini would be nice…. *wistful sigh*
Then again… I am not going to be visiting TX… so carry on with your plans and pay no mind to the chick in the fuzzy slippers…
TXSB… you ok? *read other blog* I had been wondering but didn’t wanna intrude… well.. i totally wanted to intrude.. but i refrained…
SDinATX~ are you going? I thought you weren’t gonna be able too?
Oh and I was told Austin is better and more fun… dont know never been to Texas~
sda check junk mail again.
beach check mail
BG – Only if it includes a full body massage… Make sure you get some Tantra lessons from Sincere first though ok?
Austin doe sound more appealing than Houston, sorry, spent 8 weeks there after Ike and was not fond of the place at all. We have to agree to pick Lisa up though.
Poptart – pomegranate martini… mmm…yum.
Mina:
Not much to say at this point except that we had an amicable separation a few days after my bday. Poptart:
Hey! See above. And yes, I’m doing ok.
ATX:
LOL!
Beach:
I didn’t give you permission to seek out other SBs!
ATX–Nightlife. I’m not so into malls. Actually, restaurants, art, and music are highest on my list of reasons to check out a city.
Dulci–That’s awesome! Be safe, ok luv?
Scams–well, the starbucks guy who told me to not wear underwear so he could fondle me w/in 5 seconds.
Sugarnews–spoke to a pot SD. He might come here to meet for a meal. I’m still skeptical for a number of reasons, but I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt with extreme caution.
Poptart – Make mine a strawberry mango martini and I’m in!! People watching does sound way more fun, now that you mention it.
I’ve been to Houston once, for less than 24 hours. I also visited Dallas, for about 4 days….liked it better than Houston. Never been to Austin to compare.
WHAT is all this massage talk, btw?
Seeking Arrangement Blog… After Hours
Photo~ sounds good to me! You need to come to Chicago!
Sincere~ can you come to Montreal soon? Need to learn some Tantra
TXSB~ OMG would be awesome! if you came to Chicago..,.
Omg – I can’t keep up guys!!! Lol…
poptart, well Austin has the best Jazz musicians alive right now… so that pretty much means Austin (this band used to live in New Orleans, but moved to Austin after Katrina). However, you’re not going… so no worries.
Austin has the music, and the night life, and the restaurants too. Hudson’s on the Bend makes a lot of top ten restaurants in the nation lists, and even a few international lists.
TXSB
Thanks, writing you now
photogirl & dulcinea
Dallas is quite nice(r than Houston) I went to school there for several years. However it’s hard to compare them and Austin… Dallas is a bit pretentious, Austin is flooded with college students and very laid back, while Houston is… Something in between.
TXSB~ you said photo was part of the group! just seeing if we could make out you know….You seeked her out first i think?
Mina ~ Welcome to SA the fun After hours!!!! it was from last night, i’m being a bad SB!!!
NYGent – as far as traveling for the SB…let her make that judgment call – I happen to LOVE traveling..I would die to read a book for a couple of hours – UNINTERRUPTED
Lol…that is an individual preference. Don’t let that deter you from contacting and getting to know someone. Now…if I could just convince my pots of this…**shakes head**…it seems SD’s are sometimes too considerate in that regard…I would personally like to see my SD more often…when it is good for both of us of course – but would not be opposed to up to four times a month…although perhaps two times a month for a bit longer would suffice?? Ha – I can compromise 
OK – had to skim SOME of the blog – whotf is JSO?? I am lost!
Umm guys can’t keep reading..I am lagging – catch me up to speed
Beach_Girl
I read all about it on the previous topic, lol. Freaks come out at night
Mina~ Thanks
lol I know my mom use to send me out only after dark when i was young!
Mina:
You want to join us? You’ll be required to do some exotic dancing along with massages…with other SBs.
Taz:
Hey!
Beach:
Can’t afford it. Plus I’m not used to travelling or extreme cold and the idea of going there by myself scares me. I don’t think I even have any winter clothing to be comfortable in that weather.
taz – you girls changed your name; I changed mine JSO(just sex only) off of nygent’s so sex allowed
Beach Girl
It says a lot about my personality if I’m here as well, ha!
TXSB
LOL I really don’t even know what to say to that. “This blog may contain adult contain. Must be 18 to enter.”
Beach:
Did I? So many SBs…hard to keep track at times. I’l be jealous if you two make out without me. *pout*
Mina:
Its night and you’re here…..
ok girls google “Driskill Hotel,” Austin, and tell us if you’d stay in a hotel like that.
If everyone else is changing their names, maybe I should cahnge mine too…..Darling Dulcinea? Dazzling Dulcinea? Dearest Dulcinea? Hrm….
My one time in Dallas, I was there on business, and didn’t have time to see much of the town. Basically, I was either in meetings or asleep at the hotel. But the little bit of the town I saw, I liked better than Houston. Dallas seemed more…..refined, I guess.
Evening all!
Just got back home and I am about to crash…Took me so long to catch up on the blog. Few remarks tho:
TXSB: I might have missed something…but you said on the previous blog that you were single?…..What happened to Realistic?…….I was looking forward to hearing about the trip this month….Pardon my curiosity…
NYGent: I second what Mina said.
Distance is a minor factor in a SD/SB relationship. I would prefer my SD not to be local. There is nothing like the rush and the excitement that one feels when getting ready for the next sugar date especially if the SD or the SB lives hours away 
( Imagine not seeing each other for a few days or weeks and anxiously waiting to rip each other’s clothes off…Ahem I meant enjoy each other’s company again 
)
BG: I would loooooove to see you ma belle!!!! If can make it to the Chicago meet, it would be a pleasure to meet you
SugarNews: Ah nothing to report but I have a non-sugar date this Wednesday
He is driving from NYC to come visit. Im pretty excited
Ok Time for bed
Good night babes and Gents
I should mention The Driskill also has a haunted room, if some SD wants to stay in there. They charge a lot for it…
There has to be someplace more hip than The Driskill (granted it’s been a few years since I’ve stayed there…)
TXSB: Please disregard my comment. I just caught up on the rest of the comments.
TXSB
In that case, count me in on the massage
Yaz
That last sentence (“…wanting to rip each others clothes off”) absolutely nailed it!
ATX – The Driskill is absolutely gorgeous. I can tell you, fwiw, that I’d love staying there. And the haunted room sounds like fun!
Taz~ hey girl…. How is you?
TXSB~ I wouldn’t do anything without you girl!!!
Mina~ welcome
to the partay! lol
Dulcinea~ Precious! lol
Check out St Cecilia. Cab distance from 6th St.
mina the driskell is a world class hotel.
Beach Girl – I just can’t decide if I want to be darling, dazzling, dearest, decisive, discreet, daring…..
IMHO re: LDR
When you want to be with someone. When you care about someone. That distance and time apart… hurts… It is this dull constant ache…
Sure the time together is amazing… but the time apart… bah!
*just my opinion.. i know it can work and can be wonderful… i am just sayin’*
JSO-TXSD
I’m well aware. While the location is ideal it’s just… Well, I’d imagine a more swank & trendy hotel to host a sugar party
(or in the words of Beach_Girl) “partay” lol)
mina – do you hate the willard too.
TXSB – Thanks for the good vibes on the job!
Mina – I’ll be going to Dallas for the 1st time in a couple of weeks.
The Driskill is beautiful…and I agree the haunted room sounds interesting.
Dulcinea:
I like daring.
Yaz:
Good luck on the date! Night…
Beach:
Yay!
Dulci – delightful… decadent… danger… *trails off thinking bad D words that are not appropriate or fitting but funny nonetheless*
JSO-TXSD
I didn’t say I hate the Driskill, lol. The Willard in…?
mina – dc
photogirl
I love Dallas, great city (always loads of fun)
Just please make sure you take the karaoke cab!
BG – I am tired – 4am was a long time ago
JSO – so I can safely assume you are SWM?? I am so confused
yes taz….lol
JSO-TXSD
I’ve never stayed there but have yet to have a bad experience with an IC hotel. I usually go for Kimptons or Sofitels (if it’s up to me)
going to bed. you girls have fun tonight.
The St. Cecilia is a SoCo nightmare. It’s a crazy person’s take on what a hip hotel would be in Austin. The Driskill is Austin, it’s a 100+ year old landmark and it is rather swank. When SXSW rolls around it fills up first, because that is where everyone wants to be.
Narrowed it down
At least us girls are leaving a recognizable part of our names….
To each her/his own, I suppose
That hotel, the driskill… WOW
Mina, don’t get me wrong I like your tastes. Kimpton and Sofitel are nice hotels. Sometimes old world luxury is good too. It just makes sense for the location.
Bed time for me….good night!
True, Driskill is quite brilliant. I must’ve have caught it on “off” nights
Off to bed myself… Ciao
hello hello, is anyone still awake?
dang, i guess not…
…missed it by thiiiiissssss much
well I will just take this time all alone in here to catch up on the blog and give alllllllll of my input
I know you guys are excited
also seriously contemplating changing handle to vineyard vixen…has a nice ring to it i think
okay i am really starting to feel lame chatting with myself here…
my input on the texas meet:
a) please please please let me be invited!
2)AUSTIN!!! which seems to have already been decided on so thats good
annnnd lastly) I am very inclined to agree completely with SDinATX
Austin has phenomenal night life, crazy good food, and delightful random weird things all over the place. austin is a one of a kind city, and there is all kinds of shopping there. while there IS always the Dominion, i personally think that the shopping on Congress, 1st street and the general downtown/drag make Austin a really unique shopping experience. And while i am semi-ranting – the Driskill is very old world luxury (veryyyyy, its so nice
) and while there are many other hotels in ATX that are much trendier (is that even a word?) the Driskill is something that should be experienced. the fact that it is mere blocks from 4th street, a short cab or moderate drunken hike to lower 6th (think pomegranate martinis poptart!!) is a plus, the fact that you can look out the window and see the magnificent State Capital all lit up at night 6 blocks up Congress is helpful…i think what i am getting at here is its all about location and the driskill has that in spades. (i am kind of a huge fan of the place, Austin and the Driskill)
Annnnnddddd while hudson’s is truely fantastic, lets not forget the good old texas bbq Saltlick anyone?
…helpful was not at all the word i was looking for, oh well…must sleep now.
Goodnight to me!
Good Morning to all the early risers!!!
I just spent 2 hours consoling a freaking out friend in Jo-burg. Her ‘husband’ just left her and stole her passport and their baby’s passport. He won’t return them and she can’t get back to the US. The embassy will take 6 weeks to issue another South African passport and she’s worried her employer will fire her (as she’s not there). What man would do something like that? (I know men might say What did she do that he would do something like that?).
Austin is easier to have fun in than Houston – you need a local to show you around in Houston whereas Austin is ‘funner’. Also hotel location doesn’t matter so much as Austin is ’small’. Everyone has their own hotel prefs.
No sleep so i’ll be a zombie at work – caffeine drip IV for me.
Lastly – maybe we should re-name the wee hours ‘massage after dark’ or ‘bad after dark’. LOL – ciao peeps
Good morning sugars.
FLo rida – i hopw your friend will be ok, she has every right to freak out!!
Ok by myself so will answer a few questions!
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? What are the warning signs you look out for?
I have not fallen foul of the scamming scheme, yet!
I have spent several weeks getting to know a pot before meeting due to distance. Im not worth the effort to someone who wants to scam another person! 
On another note one guy who i went on one date who turned out to be such a sleeze i had to fake an emergency phone call to leave pronto has been sending me texts obviously meant for his SB! Its all about gifts and depositis and ‘cant wait to see you’ msgs. Does anyone fall for that in sugarworld IRL!! Anyone who sends msgs like that ‘by accident’ was done on purpose.
Do you have any sugar news to report?
Nope very quiet on that front. I havnt been searching to tell you the truth and have my profile hidden. Been crazy busy last month so something had to give!! I think now after christmas il give it a proper go and reamp my profile! There was a pot who wanted to meet in jan so the timing may be good.
You aren’t alone, I am here Irish.
Morning SDN long time no see.
Irish – Sorry dashing to airport gate. Thanks, she’s a bit of a mess. Re your post alas the sugar world seems highly variable in quality. I suspect people are busy with Xmas and New Year’s so your search may be more fruitful in 2010. I suppose the morning shift could be called ‘Morning after dark – or MAD’. I leave on a flight at 8.30a.m so won’t be on long.
SDN – guten mogern.
Hey Flo Rida and Irish.
Nothing wrong with us morning sugars. The night owls make fun of us but hey we aren’t the ones on a blog at night…
SDN – Irish – alas I seem to join both groups due to my crazy sched. Flying to Miami – warmth and ocean fishing and nightclubs. About to take off – i’ll be back in approx 2 hrs time. ciao
Flo rida – i am cheating , it is lunch time for me!
NYGent says: All other recent pots have fallen through. I am currently sans. Starting to think i have the wrong style, approach, attitude for the SBs on this site . . .
NYGent says: Midwest: I’m considering it. All the NYC SB’s seem to be three steps ahead of me, I’m constantly getting outfoxed.
NYG, I’m surprised to hear you do not have a funnel full of pot SB to choose from. Based on what I have read on blog you are a considerate gentlemen, provide a good allowance and would make a great SD. As you know from the postings here, most of the women here think you would be quite the catch.
Without knowing the specifics of your search, I would venture to speculate your approach is too narrow or you are not reaching out to enough prospects. I hope I am not being too simplistic or condescending here but I would make several general comments in this area:
1. Sugar dating is a game of odds – Use the “carpet bomb” approach … the more emails you sent out, the better your odds of getting a date and finding a good match. Think about how a HR (human resources) department operates when trying to fill an open position. They use the following principles:
- Create a job description: This is equivalent to the profile of SB you are seeking. Don’t be too narrow your criteria for your ideal SB and put a time limit on your search.
- Conduct the search: While the HR uses ads or head hunter, the dating equivalent would be to send out “enough” emails to pot SB who fit your profile. It’s unlikely HR would fill mid-level position based on 10 resumes so why should you? (Try another sugar site as well)
- Screen, 1st interviews: Narrow down the candidates through email, IM and phone calls.
- 2nd round interviews: Go on dates with several SB; multiple dates with your 3 strongest candidates
- Job offer: narrow down to one SB with a backup in mind if she doesn’t accept or it doesn’t work out in the first few weeks.
- probation period: if it’s not working, talk to her about your concerns and remedies within set period. Terminate shortly if you’re not happy.
2. Broaden your search area and relax your search criteria. I seem to remember that you are looking for a SB who is intelligent, younger and model-ese. I just did a search of SB … within a 200 mile radius of Manhattan; between 5-5 to 5-9; ages 21-30; slim-athletic in build; logged in during the last 2 weeks … and came up with over 1,000 “matches”.
I made a post previously about the statistics of my last search. Off the top of my head within a one month period, I think I sent out 120 emails, received 30 replies, went on dates with 10 pots before narrowing down to 3 for repeat dates.
If you would like, we can talk further offline. Midwest has my contact info.
Good Mornign All
Hi Sincere….you’re not changing your name?
Morning Anna – nice name change!
Guten Morgen Frau Alluring … good morning Flo, Irish, SDN and others.
It’s too early to be creative. Do you have any suggestions?
Oh, I came up with one for CA Dreamin SB last night when I was catching up on the blog … how about CalifornicationSB? (No offense intended … it’s just a naughty name!)
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? What are the warning signs you look out for?
Have not fallen for a scam and haven’t come across any scammers yet. Thank goodness!
Do you have any tips for fellow sugar daddies or sugar babies on how to avoid playing the fool in Sugarland? Nope
Do you have any sugar news to report? No, not yet…but Jan. looks promising
Thanks Irish
Nice to see you!
I think Sincere should be Sin-cere…lol or Sexy Sincere
Where did everybody go?
I’m here Allluring Anna
Just stopping by quickly right now – enough time to say good morning to all!!
Good Morning Sweet Sugars!
**I love the new names**
Newbies: Welcome
Wow! I have definitely missed some interesting blog topics! Between work and battling this nasty head cold, I have been out of the loop and now I am trying to catch up. Well, I noticed that maybe Rudy sounds too plain for this blog so I opted for something with a little more flavor
Poptart: Pomegranate Martinis are quite tasty! Congrats with your SD too:)
Yaz10: Have fun on your date
LASB: With regards to Mr. Starbucks….(smh) nothing surprises me anymore….
Tantalizing Taz (glad things are going well with the SD), Alluring Anna, Vineyard Vixen and TXSB: I have missed blogging with you ladies in the evening
((hugs))
Midwest and Lisa: I hope everything is going well with your SDs
FloRida: With regards to your friend that stinks! Her Husband sounds like he has lost his mind.
If have missed anyone who has updates, I apologize, I am still trying to catch up on the blogs.
Blog Questions:
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? What are the warning signs you look out for?
Requesting additional photos, test drives….I actually had a pot SD ask me to send him a photo of me ’showing off’…ewww. Needless to say I didn’t bother to respond to that at all.
Do you have any tips for fellow sugar daddies or sugar babies on how to avoid playing the fool in Sugarland?
Well, I have received all of my tips from them, so I think they are already savvy enough to discern for themselves
Do you have any sugar news to report?
No, but I am optimistic
Alright, I am now retreating back to my warm covers with hot tea. I hope everyone has a wonderful day!
Goooood Morning everyone!!!
Hiiiiii Rudy!! I dig the new name
very nice. and i am missing out on blogging with everyone these days too 
hopefully you and i will be back in the swing of things soon and we can catch up on everything.
well I am off to work (blah i dont like to brave the cold unless i am about to go skiing/snowboarding) i have a pot SD date tonight, wish me luck!
Hope everyone has a good day
wow, not only do i have hundreds of comments on the other post to catch up on but there’s over a hundred HERE TOO!
guess you aren’t allowed to take a night off around here
lol
Cleo – i feel your pain i had 3 blogs to catch up on!!
See the jury is in: Everyone prefers Austin because Houston does suck! lol
Off to take a shower and do some last minute errands before my trip tomorrow
And those of you ladies who don’t like shopping and malls, well we need to line you all up in front of a firing squad
I think the only kind of “scam” men try on me is to get me to send them more photos of myself (because 3 of myself aren’t good enough) and THEN they will send me photos of THEMSELVES. Yeah, how about no.
I will have to admit that I am wary of men who immediately include their phone # in their introductory email and expect me to call them right away. For some reason this reminds me of the escort-type SB, only in reverse. So I stay away from those guys…their desperation to get laid is just such a turn-off.
I’m off to go enjoy my one day off to myself! finally!! Have fun in the sugar world sweets!
Oh and my only news in sugar land are a few talks with potentials and one potential meeting with my sugar blog crush.
Gemini29 ~ Sugar blog crush isn’t doing it for me….I need more detail
Have a great day eveyone
I’m out for a very busy day
Lisa – i hope you have a great trip if i dont catch you before you go! Cant wait to hear all about it!
Thanks, I’m sure i’ll have a wonderful time
Lisa ~ I know you will have lots of fun! Have a safet trip
Gemi – oooo meeting your blog crush… im curious… but i respect your need for discretion… you should email me and fill me in on details… its been a while girlie
Lisa that Actually Has an SD~ Love it Lol, you always make me laugh….
Have a fun and safe trip! Enjoy it… it’s going to be amazing i’m sure!!
Hi everyone
Good morning sugar compatriots! I have had numerous scams — emails from Russian sugars asking to wire travel money, wire transfer requests from allegedly abused women (just need a little money so I can leave my significant other), travel advance requests of 1K+, etc. The list goes on and on. Not many this year though, because I hid my profile. That essentially eliminated that problem I recommend other SDs hide their profile too, but whatever works for you.
Advice… use common sense, and if sounds too good to be true, it usually is!
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? What are the warning signs you look out for?
When I first joined SA there were many scammers… some of the warning signs I look for:
1) Offering an exorbitant amount of an allowance while income listed couldnt possibly allow for such expense
2) Constantly asking for pictures – I have 3 up that should be enough …
3) Never being able to meet – this is possibly a picture collector
4) Asking for a test drive immediately
Do you have any tips for fellow sugar daddies or sugar babies on how to avoid playing the fool in Sugarland?
Listen to your intuition… if it feels wrong it probably is… be smart about what you share and with whom… and personal safety is key… if the pot is not doing anything to ensure you feel comfortable chances are he is inconsiderate in other areas of the relationship… best to leave him and move on
Do you have any sugar news to report?
Had a lovely date last night… we made cocktails and mine were superb… the class allowed you to come up with your signature drinks… I made a cranberry infused champagne (YUMMY) and a passion fruit/kiwi/raspberry martini … the instructor liked them so much the cranberry infused champagne will be featured in the bookmarks lounge (bookmarks hotel) and at the campbell apartments during the holliday season… needless to say date was impressed and we are going to see each other again this friday
Congrats on your date NYC SB — and cranberry infused champagne sounds very tasty!
Suddenly I’m in the mood…for a Mimosa
Your drinks do sound very good NYC SB
NYC SB, what is an exorbitant amount? The only dishonesty I display on here or any site is my income and worth. That really has nothing to do with anyone but me and my accountant and the IRS. If I pay the allowance requested on time all the time, who cares what it says I make?
I just bet there are some who feel the same as I. Someone is either going to pay or not, but you should be able to find out rather quickly.
Oh, and congratulations on the date
SDinATX – I understand that but someone who says that he makes 100K a year and then tells you he will give you 20k a month raises a red flag for me… also you are right its either he will pay or wont… but i would rather not waste a month to figure that one out… just my thoughts and I could be wrong as there are many who misstate their income… yet they are pretty comfortable saying “you know my income figures are mistated but i am comfortable with x per month”
NC and AA – next NYC meet i will be making the drinks lol
Morning all -
ATX – on your post from last night…I’d choose the mall – I can create my own wild nightlife.
I might be able to make the March Texas dinner — either Houston or San Antonio work for me, but Houston is the preferred location.
You would make a great drinkmaster NYC SB!
NC – long time! You all travelled out??
I could probably make a dinner in San Antonio if y’all met there
I can’t go to Texas
I’m @ Fontainebleau resort Miami Beach in a corner suite overlooking the ocean – it’s 80degrees and it’s glorious. My only problem is that I was so tired, I packed NY clothes alas no one wears black here so if I have time i’ll go shopping. I’ve decided life will be good today – the drama can wait for tomorrow. Must catch up on some sleep though.
Gemi, Lisa, NYC SB – i’m so happy for all of you. big hugs!
FR – I’m SO jealous!
p.s. I meant drinkmistress NYC SB.
Long time no see Irish!!! I have a trip to Philadelphia on Thurs/Friday but I am trying to get an employee to cover that one!
Hey sugars how is everybody? New blog again…jeez
Have I every suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam me? Yep and I haven’t seen him since. Actually he was more a cheapskate and time waster than fake check kind of person.
Any tips? All of them were given already
Any news from Sugarland? To my utter sadness no. But I really haven’t been active thanks to my apartment emergency and having to evacuate and no staying with relatives… frown
hope i’m not the only one here
Sincere: many thanks for your long and thoughtful post. It is a very thorough and strategic concept which I’m sure works, although it sounds pretty exhausting! Actually, I don’t have any trouble finding and meeting pots, I have numerous pot dates. In fact i’ve concluded that I need to be MORE discriminating and selective than in the past and send out fewer emails to those whom I fairly confident could work out (NC Gent follows this more “targeted” approach and seems to do quite well). What I need to work on is my “judgment” once i’ve met a pot. Thanks again and good luck to you too (though doesn’t sound like you need it!)
Hi Red and NYGent
How are you two this morning? I am a little under the weather
I woke up at 4:30 this am with a migraine and a sick tummy, but I’m slowly getting back to normal and I think a nap would do me some good.
CA – SB – But I have nothing to wear! Now the evening crowd would get excited at this but… i’m going to hit the beach – I did pack a bikini. Cheerio all – i’ll swim & fall asleep on the beach in a cabana.
Flo – ummm im so so jealous… if you see a uber hot boy by the pool (blonde, 6pack) say hello… thats my buddy jay jay… then you will wish you were sans SD hahaha … did i mention he is retired
NC – i prefer master
Hi Gent
Hey Anna : If its any comfort, I’ve had a migraine since yesterday. Its kinda tapered off to dull ache but I still can feel it.
Hey Flo Rida wish I was there hope you’re a throughly enjoying yourself
Hey hey RedMaru, NYC, NYGent,
NC – i hope you negotiate your way outta that one!
Whatever you want NYCSB — oh great and might drinkmaster! Maybe you can teach me a few bartending tips!
Morning sugars!
Mr. Walmart Parking Lot finally stopped calling….thank the gods! Hopefully he won’t start back up again, otherwise Daring Decadent Dulcinea will be turning into Diabolical Dangerous Dulcinea…. >:)
I’m thinking about moving to find a better job market. Anyone have opinions on the DC area, Raleigh-Durham, or the Twin Cities?
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? What are the warning signs you look out for?
There are always going to be scammers out there. The guy who wanted a free ‘test drive’, the guys who contact you with phone numbers and personal email addresses in the first email ‘call me, let’s get this moving’…I wish we could rid the site of them, but that’s not going to happen!
Do you have any tips for fellow sugar daddies or sugar babies on how to avoid playing the fool in Sugarland?
I absolutely agree with NYCSB- if it feels wrong – it is wrong. Go with your gut.
Do you have any sugar news to report?
Had a pot I really liked…turns out to not want an SB, really looking for a GF (not intersted in providing an allowance, or anything like that). Got an email from a guy 1200 miles away, with a phone number and a personal email saying ‘lets get this show on the road’ – are you KIDDING me?
Dulci – I just left Raleigh. Depends on what type of work you are looking for. I would check out some of the job boards (careerbuilder, indeed, monster) for those areas and see if there are jobs available in your field. I was in Raleigh for 15 years – if you want to chat off the blog, send it to slmc71 at the y place.
Sorry, can’t help with that one Dulcinea. I love DC, but don’t know what the job market is like there.
I could spend all day in the museums though
I am LOVING everyone’s new and improved names – umm if you don’t have something added to the ‘old name’ – could you put an aka reference in so slow pokes like me don’t get confused?? (IE: Rudy – I will never remember that name without some kind of reference…although saying that now I DO think I remember Music City Mistress right?? Lol) Anyhow – if I missed that post I wouldn’t know who you are anymore sweetie!!!!!!
Ok again – love the name changes. I am leaving mine as is until I think of something better…I use Turkess on SA – maybe I should do the same here since my profile is now linked
Hope everyone is having a good day – mine has been better – coming to my sugar fam to cheer me up!!
Alluring – why don’t you have your profile linked anymore?
CA Dreamin – you’ve got mail! (Unfortunately not from a good-looking, intellectual business scion….)
AM/NM/AA: I’m a little under the weather too, and I think due to the weather too.
I just started talking to a ‘pot’ (not sure it is far enough along to call him a pot yet
) I have never been in the position of having a SD tell me he would not send me his pic….kinda weird to me 
Although I can understand that circumstances he stated…he wants to ‘text’ – not even send email? I know people are busy but wow…have I mentioned I hate phones..and texting 
Well sometimes texting is fun – but some pots want to text you all day/night long (pots…not sd) and expect you to answer each time!
Ok done my rant
Ahhh, Hello Suga Fam!
NYGent ~ You need some chicken soup
Tantalizing Taz ~ Oh, I’m just taking a breather right now
Is “Captivating CA” better than CA Dreamin?
I have a hard time coming up with new names!
Good morning everyone. Wow, by the time the West Coast wakes up, the East Coast has been posting for hours!
I never connected the “here’s my email and phone number, let’s get this show on the road” attitude with being a faker. A few weeks ago I met a man who I had only exchange a total of 4 emails with. I had a 2 minute phone conversation with him where he asked to meet for coffee,(without making the no underwear demand. haha.) When I arrived at the location, he asked if I wanted to have lunch instead. I saw him once more after that. He seems very legit and wasn’t pushy. We didn’t take anything further and he left the country until January. (I guess I have that effect on men. ha!)
Anyhow, my thought is that if a guy wants to talk on the phone right away, he’s not a time waster. I believe this type of person can come in two forms
(1) the scammer
and
(2) the legit SD who has a busy schedule and wants to be very efficient.
Can any SDs comment on this? Do you wait for a few emails before offering up a phone number?
NC Gent, may I ask why San Antonio and Houston work but Austin doesn’t? I thought it might be flights for some people, but when you say San Antonio, that can’t be flights. The San Antonio airport has less direct flights than Austin.
Even though SA is a little easier for me, I must admit there are direct flights from airports in NC to Austin…
Regarding Texas–From the west coast, Dallas is the easiest to get to, but Austin isn’t bad either. I’m not a fan of Houston so I don’t care how easy it is to get to, and I haven’t been to San Antonio but I’d be open to checking it out.
LA – the reason I am wary of an email and phone number in the first contact email is that I don’t even have close-up photos of me posted. Maybe I’m just underestimating my profile, but, for an SD to suggest we get together ASAP and for me to call him so we can work out the details and I haven’t even typed ‘hello’ or sent a close-up photo, it seems a bit ‘off’. Gentlemen – am I wrong in my thinking?
LASB – GREAT question – can’t wait to hear the SD’s chime in
Captivating – I kind of liked CA Dreamin
Okay Taz – since no one else had an opinion, I’ll change it back!
As I informed you earlier on a few blogs back, I am supposed to meet a POT in Jan after the holidays. He will be arriving to my state. Now what I have learned is somewhat intriguing, and scary. He has offices on the W.Coast, E.Coast, and in Europe. He has a SB on the EC, and one in Europe and wants me as his girl on the W.Coast. I respect him because he was completely honest with me from the very beginning. It was mind shattering to say the least. The hook for me is that he is a major player in the industry of my business. His companies attract some very important and well known people. He has stated that if we connect, he would love to mentor me, take me under his wing. I am attracted to him, we have been communicating over the phone, and we really enjoy communicating with each other. I guess the thing that gets me is that I will feel like I am part of a harem.
2Chic – whether or not you want to be one of 3 is up to you. With that said – it sounds like a great opportunity…
2Chic–That’s a tough one. I’d say go with your gut. If your self esteem is going to take a major hit, it’s probably not worth it. I think it’s great that he’s very up front about it. Maybe after meeting him in person, you will have the answer you need.
Captivating CA SB, well it depends how well did you describe yourself? For instance Gemini could have one blurry photo, and I’d likely start off giving her at least an email. It depends on if your profile screams “You want me!”
SDA — I conduct business in Houston and San Antonio, but not Austin, so that is the motivation.
LA SB — I don’t offer up my cell # until I am extremely comfortable, which can be from days to weeks of communicating. I always see SBs that don’t live near me so there is no sense of urgency… also, I don’t do the — I am coming to your town on business next week emails…
You tell me ATX (if you don’t mind) – my profile number is 377181
NC Gent, Austin is a 70 minute drive from San Antonio… so you could still schedule work. I do that drive at least 6 times a month for work.
CA Dreamin SB, well I’m a Longhorn, born & raised, and a Legacy at that (my grandfather played football there, my granduncle basketball, my father played football there, and I well walked on to football there). So that excites me right off the bat!
However, no it doesn’t scream “I want you!” But it does scream “Not the same profile as everyone else,” which is a big difference. So I could see some SD who wants to skip the nonsense just taking a plunge.
SDinATX~ I really like the hotel yesterday,,, the one you posted here… really nice place to have a sugar party
Thank you ATX…I appreciate the ‘review’
I too like to get to know someone before I give out my number. Like NC, I’m looking for someone who is LD so what’s the rush really.
I don’t mind emails or texts at all, it’s kinda’ hard for me to talk on the phone sometimes, so, emails and texts are usually better for me.
Yes, that is possible SDA – I travel to TX about 3-4 times a year so the odds of it working for me aren’t that great anyway
I wish me profile was good I need to change it up!
NYCGent–Wow, I’m surprised. I always thought NYCers didn’t beat around the bush. I’ve always taken the stance that if a guy takes weeks to meet me and doesn’t seem to have a good reason, then he’s more about the online fantasy than anything else.
CA Dreamin SB says:
December 15, 2009 at 9:54 am
2Chic – whether or not you want to be one of 3 is up to you. With that said – it sounds like a great opportunity…
AGREED! If you can – go for it!! He was honest…and perhaps a very legit SD. If you have the chemistry and it is NSA…hmmmm….just pretend he has two wives
EXCELLENT way to look at it Taz!!!
BeachGirl–I like your profile. Your photos are great! Having the “I value honesty,” part, do you still get married men contacting you? I’d be chuckling at that.
NYCGent–Sorry, I forgot to tell you thanks. I mean, you’ve given me new perspective on why a guy might seem to be “beating around the bush.”
Ok Who is Gemini’s crush???? Not fair you can’t do that to us!!!! god im so curious
LASB~ I value honesty in our relationship… I get no one contacting me… so…. i guess it’s not all that
::)
Everyone is curious…lol. I want to know so bad! I’ve been sitting here trying to figure it out..lol
Alluring Anna~ It’s just too peek our curiosity ,,,, so not right ….
I can’t find my T.V. clicker…ugh
I know…not fair!! If I was going to say something like that, I would at least give a little hint….lol
I’m sure we’ll find out someday
Ok im loving the new names so my Thanksgiving blog night name is getting another appearence!
2chic – My last SD had a SB in Asia… he was upfront about it… and I respected his honesty. It didnt bother me much bc after all this is NSA and I really find it hard to believe that an SD will be just with one SB… some are but a lot are not… having said that its up to you to do what is comfortable for your benefit…
That name is perfect for you Irish
NYC SB~ Hey girl! I agree that if he has other SBs he should be honest about it… It is up to you if you are comfortable with it!
We could have all of us SDs, go “not it.” Until you figure it out.
Yes — some SDs take their time LA-SB. I am quite selective and I need somewhat from out of town. Most importantly, I need someone sane and discreet, and you get a feeling for that. The last thing I want is a “bunny boiler” (think Fatal Attraction).
Also, I am married, so if I see a profile that says I value loyalty and honesty, I figure that excludes me (well at least in relationships), so I move on. Not sure SBs mean to exclude married SDs with this line, but it excludes me and I suspect others.
NCGent~ thanks, I guess I will change it!
Ok so Questions…
1~ who is the blog crush?
2~ Who is going to Chicago?
Thanks ladies for the input, I am taking it all in. Taz…. that is a great way to look at it….lol.
NC ~ I have in my profile that I’m looking for someone who is honest and sincere in their words and actions. Doesn’t mean I don’t want a married man, it just means I want you to tell the truth as to whether you are married or not.
I wouldn’t say no to a man because he is married, but that is just me
Anna – right back at you! Love alluring!
2chic – I think the fact he was honest with you must mean something. If he hadnt there was the possibility you would have never found out. So if your comfortable knowing, go for it! He can afford 3 SBs wow ( im not the european SB btw!
)
I am going to take a wild guess with Gem’s blog crush…. I think it is NYGent.
NC gent–Sorry I keep calling you NYC Gent. My dyslexic eyes (yes, Im dyslexic) must be tired from all this blog reading. I only just now realized, you were two different people. Oops.
no problem LASB — NY Gent is my “good” twin lol
Irish ~ Naughty Molly was around yesterday. It was Anna’s turn to come out and play today
Thanks NC. When you talked about out of town and married, I got so confused for a second. Talk about feeling like a Sugarfool. haha.
Oh i love the split personality Anna – naughty and nice!
LOL…two SB’s in one
Theres an offer the SDs cant refuse!!
Sadly, there are no takers Irish
It’s a new concept Anna – one you have JUST revealed
Give them a minute to line up my dear! 
Ahemm…doubt they can since you are not linked anymore
Il sit in the same boat as you Anna!
Beach Girl – Well im not going iv no idea who is – i think that list is under lock and key in some basement somewhere.!
Hey Taz !
Lol..I am on the ‘might attend’ list Irish – and i don’t have any idea either
Its like a murder mystery for us bloggers!
‘Whodunit to who-are-you!
Do you think we get another clue??
BG -
1) im not her blog crush
2) cant make it to chicago
I am not attending the Chicago dinner either, but I sure wonder who is!
I’m not going to chicago
Been swapping more emails with this pot….he finally sent a pic. And he’s absolutely adorable. *happy dances*
Taz – i think by process of elimination we will get there!
Who is the european SB going? I dont think its either of the UK SBs. And theres a lurker going?? I thought i read that somewere.
NC – wheres the goofy coming from!
Dulcinea – Yayyyy you dance away there!
Congrats Dulce!! Yay!!!
Irish – I am working on my patience…it will take sooo long this way! I think the European SB is who we are all stuck on
It would be nice if the mystery lurker got to know us on the blog a bit!!! 
LASB: just skimming through I saw you address some questions, I thought, to NC Gent, so I passed them by. But people confuse us all the time.
I did take your rec on pix and switched a couple around, thanks.
But sorry — not changing my name here! guess I’m not creative enough — and I probably wouldn’t even remember it, i’m terrible with names myself, even my own if it’s not real.
A/N Anna: I love the split personality!
ladies: there was an SD the other night who first brought up the idea that he wanted to visit Baltimore. In fact, he mentioned it several times. Could it be he?
SDN shared the numbers on chicago last night: 7 and 3, although he didn’t divulge names. I’m one of the 3. I think it is a little rude for the TX contingent to promote March before Chicago even happens. I hope you’re not afraid we’ll set the bar too high for you to keep up with?
I thought the Euro SB attending was Irish SB but I have been set straight on that.
I can say with absolute certainty that I am not Gemi’s blog crush!
Nc Gent – How about:
- Generous Gent
- Friendly Gent
- Geriatric Gent..sorry couldn’t help it…but really – I have NO idea how old you are! For all I know you could be a young buck like TexaSd
I don’t know – I told you I was not good at picking names lol
Not sharing the list nor where we are meeting
If you want to know you should go!
Anyone that is going that wants to share they can post on the blog, well except for the lurker (shy person) because then they wouldn’t be a lurker.
There is a European SB going and a lurker! We have a nice mix of SBs and SDs.
Goofy/Irish – I was sure it was Irish too
Ooooh james.m – those sound like fighting words
I am the other going to chicago.
and james – I am not afraid you’all will set the bar to high
lol
Hi SDN
Who said something about going to Baltimore? I’m too lazy to go back and look…lol
NC – maybe i should just change my name to European SB!! Il take all credit for SBs in europe!
James – Im not 100% sure on this but i think the chicago was being talked about pre NYC meet. The timing and place didnt suit everyone so someone goes and organises another. Im holding out for one this side of the water! I think il be waiting though.
Anna – was it ATX? I am lost with everyone changing names back and forth lmao!
Anna – ATX said something about going to Baltimore
I’d be up for Chicago – but it’s TOO COLD and SOMEONE never sent me my snuggie!
I think it was ATX talking about going to Baltimore. Maybe.
CA Dreaming – id send you one but they have sold out everywhere in Ireland. Read that in the papers today , shops cant keep up with the demand. My house mate did not understand why i was laughing at that story!
Ahhhhh, thanks
I could not go to Chicago due to my schedule but Texas is a possibility in the spring, whether Austin or Houston I’m fairly indifferent between the two. I have a niece in Austin I could visit . . . but couldn’t exactly tell her why i’m there, would have to make something up.
Taz: Geriatric, wow that hurts!
Baltimore? Your guesses as good as mine.
WOW the blog is busy today lol
Ok this nick fits me best! I don’t think anyone is trying to one-up the other on these dinner parties. It is just a great way to meet some people on the blog and have some fun — nothing more, and nothing less.
SDN, you have mail
CA Dreaming: I was thinking about bringing snuggies to Chicago as party favors for all the ladies…do they come in sizes? Do I need to check all the profiles for size and color preferences?
Irish, don’t offer again, or I for one will take you up on it. I’ve been there to play golf and to fish the Blackwater (love those double handed fly rods!) As soon as the winter weather clears up, I’m ready to go.
Yes, GeGe, you’re right. Just thought I’d lob one in and duck. *hiding under desk until the flak dies down*
CA Dreaming, you’re about to have mail.
NY–No need to change. I like a man who knows who he is and knows he doesn’t need to prove it to anyone. I’m not changing either. I like being low profile. I love your pic with the sunglasses. It screams fun! I know this sounds kind of silly, but there’s something very attractive about an older man who can out party my younger friends. (notice how I didn’t say “me.” No one out partys me. hehe.)
Lol NYGent – as I said – it popped into my mind (more than likely due to my own pot who is much older – I think perhaps he shaved ten years off and told me he was 55 – which wouldn’t be a deal breaker, I was just a little surprised) and nothing at all to due with NCGent. As I said – I have NO idea how old he is!…or even if he is hot or not since no one wants to say ANYTHING about the dinner!
(and you know us SB’s asked 
) Nothing. Nada. Sigh…ok done my rant…you should all work for the secret service..something like that 
Upon refreshing – NOOOO – I WAS SOOO JOKING!!! I PROMISE! LMFAO…I definitely see why you thought goofy gent suited you
You do have a great sense of humor! 
Winter weather clears up?? James which part of ireland were you in! I gotta get myself there! Lol joking, ah you were in cork, kerry or waterford!
Taz — I have all of my teeth and most of my hair and I am in my late 40s. Hotness is in the eye of the beholder
Goofy Gent suits him fine
From what I can remember from the dinner there is a perfect nick for NYGent but I will keep it to myself
Geriatric Gent?!!!! Brutal! LMAO. I like goofy gent. It’s cute.
All – I think Gemi’s blog crush is AT-X or NYGent BUT I don’t really care as long as they are happy. I wish all those who travel to the fair city Baltimore a fair wind and a good sail.
AT-X and NYGent – what say you?
NYC SB – does your cabana boy live or work at FB resort (too lazy to spell it).
Taz: I thought Geriatric was aimed at me, now NC Gent has gone and taken it — NC you can have it, hits a little too close to home for me!
Taz: if you go back you’ll see I said quite a bit about the NY dinner, as much as I could get away with.
Taz, Yes NCGent is hot lol Dont let him tell you otherwise..
Ok, time to go make a bunch of decisions and whip people into shape. Have a great day, sugars!
Flo: I just said your guesses as good as mine.
Yaz: now you’ve got me curious about the dinner nick. But I won’t press for it . . . can just imagine though, given the topic of convo about me that night. (others: it was NOT flattering!)
James – where do I have mail?
awww ty Yaz — I will keep the checks coming!
Taz — another tidbit from dinner — I was trying to seduce NY Gent into agreeing to be my sugar daddy. In the end, I had to settle for a blogmance — or was it bromance?? not quite certain — too many beers me thinks!
Yes, NC Gent and I are hooking up in Baltimore, which is halfway between NYC and NC. That could be the source of all the confusion.
I think it was bromance
I just hate that phrase “hooking up” it is so demeaning to us SBs! It is a legitimate date! honest!
I know you did – you were very considerate to divulge what you did NYGent!
It was appreciated – but nice to hear from a SB’s perspective as well 
It’s all good though – I do have an imagination 
and NO that name was most certainly NOT aimed at you – I have seen your profile and you are very handsome!!…you do not look old!! I was just putting names out there lol..sorry 
flo – cabana boy lol thats what he calls himself… he is in at the resort relaxing… cuz you know nyc is just too cold this time of year … he is a weather chaser
midwest – you are a lucky gal… james.m is a cutie… had to check out his profile…
LOL @ NCGent ( I think it worked since you got an allowance from him right
lol )
NYGent: The nick has nothing to do with the convo but more about the way you carried yourself and acted which was incredibly HOT. I think the other ladies will agree
nc – you and ny gent have a bromance
midwest and james have a blogmance
::whispers to blog::
NY gent gave NC gent a nice murse for xmas (murse= man purse) it was prada i think
The truth is out!
NYCSB: Yesssssssssssssssssss lol
TY Yaz!! Finally – the seal is broken
NCGent- too funny – these are fascinating little details….too many beers is good!
NYGent – LMAO!! Handome and funny
I knew you guys would eventually want to talk about it…:D
lmao – ummm – handsome and funny..
NYC SB: no, Chanel of course, that’s my gift bag of choice, as you all know . . .
But don’t anyone tell NC Gent: it was a fake one off the street. (oops!)
The murse was Coach!
oops lol
LMAOO
At what point does a the SB portion of a bromance become a blogstress? Does it require e-mail intimacy? Gives new meaning to paying by pay pal.
Patience, CA Dreaming, I got long winded.
NYGent – you’re comment at 11.54 was one of the best of the witty repartee of the last few days. Just wanted you to know that it didn’t go unnoticed.
ROFL that is too funny…
NC Gent – hate to break it to you like this but, Coach, Gucci, Prada, doesn’t matter – a murse is a no-no!!!
Its ok NC….. you still have the allowance right?
I just want to know how many of us scrolled up to 11:54 to see what NY Gent had said
NC Gent *quirks a brow* Philly you say?
And everyone scrolls up to 11.54!!
i remember what he said lol
clearly no one missed it. They just didn’t comment until I decided to point it out, only to be upstaged by a wonderful discussion of murses. Actually, I thought a murse was the last thing a guy wants to see while in the hospital: a male nurse.
check that, a male nurse with a thermometer.
Ok apologies in advance to NY Gent…
All I had to do to get the allowance was bat my eyelashes a few times and make a couple of promises that I knew I would never keep
NC Gent: as you know I find that such a turn-on . . .
NY Gent – I never figured you to be that easy!
with apologies to Groucho:
When a pot makes a promise I know she won’t keep I leave in a huff.
Or more accurately, a month and a huff.
I am feeling left out.
james.m: *** batting eyelases and using Miss Moneypenny’s voice *** Hi James.
Last night we were talking about watching as the ladies get together, dance and make out. Now, we’re talking about these two? *quicjkly averts his eyes*
We are on a very slippery slope here, and I don’t like where its going!
Uh-oh James…looks like SDN has his eyes on you…when the SB’s so outnumber the SD’s on here – how sad is it that they go for each other!
::NYC SB grabs CA Dreaming SB and starts making out::
there ya go James! happy now?
*throwing his bowler at the hat rack, knocking it over* M. James M.
(BTW, did you know that the real M is currently a woman?)
I KNEW you liked me NYC SB!!!
NYCSB: LOL! I love you!!!
NC Gent – out of the 11? guests there you were the only other male there and scored a purse from NY Gent, hmmmm some secret skills there!
CA Dreaming. How can you pass up Chicago. SDN and I will be there, as will NYC SB. Massages all around!!
Damn…and I was thinking I was special…
james unfortunately i wont be attending the chicago meet up… i will be at work unfortunately
I would love to go to Chicago – but – 1) no one sent me the invite with the info 2) no snuggie and I get cold quickly 3) well – there is no 3 – but 3 in a list always looks better than 2
NCGent is not that easy y’all but the chemistry between the two gents was instant!! They couldnt keep their eyes off of each other even with a table full of gorgeouuuuuuus SBs hmpf!! LOL
CA – of course you are special… everyone on the blog is… to this day i am astounded with the quality of people on here
CA- you can have my snuggie… but you might have to fight broke bf for it… he loves using it… and umm its pink
unfortunately the murse doesn’t match my shoes or belt
I second NYC SB’s post – the quality of the men and women on this blog is amazing. I’m so glad I clicked that ‘blog’ button and joined in.
Hello SugarLand! What’s this I see about a sugar dinner? Details! Please!
NYC SB! It’s been awhile
NC: Bat your lashes some more and you might get a matching belt hehe
NC Gent – haven’t you heard? Your murse doesn’t have to match your shoes or belt. Being all matchy-match is passe’. Just so long as it complements, you’re good to go.
DesertBunny – welcome, but you might want to check the rowdy atmosphere before admitting you’re here.
HI Dessert – how are you dear? long time no see! hope all is well
Oh! I know all about the atmosphere, james.m! Isn’t it fantastic?! Thanks for the welcome back!
I am well, NYC. Yesterday was my birthday, and I am lovin’ my new CL Peep-Toe Pumps! I thought of you when I slipped them on last night. Do you know that they make a Louboutin Barbie? She’s oooh la la!
NYC SB I thought it was desert bunny, referring to her location (although I don’t know where it is). You suggest it is dessert bunny, which suggests she’s one heck of a SB.
Bunny: in the spirit of changing our names around, I strongly suggest you take NYC SBs interpretation.
I find that batting eyelashes… while twirling your hair… with a full on pout… works best… -nodding- then again NC is the one who ended up with the Chanel murse… maybe i should take lessons…
CA Dreaming. I beg to correct you. You have been invited, and I offered snuggies as door prizes.
poptart – maybe he was wearing FMPs?
James – in my experience, door prizes are generally given out at the end of the evening, not the beginning – what am I to do to keep warm BEFORE then? Hmm?
I mean really – NYC SB isn’t going to be there so I can’t snuggle up with her!
I like your style james.m.
And I like DessertBunny too!
james.
-dramatic sigh-
what are the poor sb’s to do while the SD’s are, as NY Gent put it so eloquently earlier, ‘hooking up’?
as for his FMPs… pish posh! that is just crazy talk… now maybe if they were FMB’s… *smirk*
NYC SB – how can work compare to that offer? Didn’t LASB suggest she was coming? Maybe your language skills will pay off with EuroBaby?
James.m – you are right… it just does not compare… but i gots bills to pay and CA needs a snuggie… so i need to make enough so i can purchase a brand new one for her
CA no worries this is NSA (no sex allowed)
DB – if we ever meet we can wear our peep toed CLs… we can be the CL twins… i didnt know about the barbie… i want it now … see james all the more reason to work
OK, Poptart, I’ll bite — FMBs?
I want a pair of peep toed CLs!!! Who can I bat my eyelashes at for those?
Is the Chicago dinner by invite only? What does a DessertBunny need to do to receive one?
James – F*** Me Boots.
Example: Knee high black leather with a 6″ platform/heel combo. Damn, I wish I still had those….
Poptart — thank heavens. I was afraid it was F*** Me Birkenstocks
james… -biting my lip- wait… what is FMP?
*embarassed laugh quickly changing the subject*
NYC SB – oi… every time I hear NSA now I think no sex allowed… and it soooo makes me giggle
I picked up a snugli for xmas party secret santa gift…
Actually, I hae those! They’re brown Wellingtons from DuBarry’s of Ireland. Great for bird hunting, and, apparently, they work for SDs, too!
F*** Me Pumps
Dulci -tapping nose with finger and pointing at you- Yes! But maybe it is just me who prefers boots…
james… -laughing- only if I was going after a DeadheadSD.
Desert Everyone is invited!
Desert Bunny – its SDN whos organising it
James- Dubs how posh~!!
yes.. i thought that is what FMP were… so that is why i said FMB… i was just confused in case I had FMP wrong… *blinking away my blonde moment*
Oh snap NC
NYC – Absolutely! Matching red nail polish too?
Thank you, Irish Mistress
And thank you too, NC Gent!
*biting my nails all unladylike*
yanno… NC Gent… you deserve so much better… he got you a fake murse from canal street… -shaking my head- for shame… good thing you didn’t keep those promises!
NYGent -tsktsktsk-
I much prefer FMB to FMP….mostly because FMP normally involve stiletto heels that I can’t freaking walk in!!
DDD – me, either
James, perhaps one of these girlier SBs will teach the both of us
I’m off to work….y’all take care!
DB – yess on matching red nail polish… i have mine on now… i showed it to the NYC meet up group
gotta match them CL soles
poptart: you know canal street? didn’t realize you are in NYC if you are, did we faux pas by not inviting you to the dinner (or maybe you weren’t on the blog by then).’
NY Gent – i know of canal street!
NYC- Fun! There is a NYC meet up group? I wanna come to that too! We need a SoCal meet up group!
Well we had a one off meeting initiated by NC and NY Gents … had a great turnout… thus the Chicago meet up …
NYGent – Of course I know canal street!
I thought it was an open invitation? I had totally invited myself but the timing was off and I wasn’t able to attend. Or else I would have been there. Hopefully for the next one!
I am from the land of cheese steaks wit wiz.
poptart: so you are East Coast Philly not to be confused with East Coast Filly.
Who is going to the Chicago dinner? And is anyone else living in SoCal?
Hello everyone…did I hear my name being called NYGent, lol
I think I am confusing people with my name, maybe I should find a new one?
Ah DesertBunny that is the million dollar question its all very hush hush that meeting!
ECF: I think a least a couple of us gotta stick with our names!
Has anybody come out and said “I’m going to Chicago” except for the hosts?
Hi ECF
How are ya?
Irish Mistress – Alright. I sent my email. I will be patient.
Ya, I will stick with it!
Hey AM!! I’m doing well, I’ve been lurking mostly. You all have me cracking up with man bags, purses, bromances, LOL!!
Chicago would be so cool, I’ve never been, always wanted to go. Funds are a little low with the holidays so I’ll just bask in the memories of our NYC night
Desert Bunny– Hi, I’m a SoCaler. I’d love to do a meetup in LA. I’m relatively new here and haven’t met any LA folk yet.
SDN – If it cannot be posted on the blog can you atleast send a mass email to all who have contacted you with a list of everyone who is coming and is possibly coming? Second request…pretty please?
Hello Everyone! Busy day on here… Desert Bunny – I like Dessert Bunny as well
LASB – Cool! Let’s organize one! nglvbunny @ google
Photogirl –
DB – organize one for feb/march time so i can attend… i have a cali pot in the works
Just some hopefully constructive advice to the chicago crowd, i have no dog in this hunt since i’m not going, but I think one of the reasons the NYC dinner had such high attendance it did is because NC Gent and I were very transparent on the blog as to who said they were coming, and whether they were “definite” or “possible.” We were constantly posting and re-posting on the blog (and later by private email) the list of attendees. I believe this gave everybody comfort that they were’nt going to be “alone” and in the end every single “definite” (except one) ended up showing.
Hello DesertBunny
Hey ppl! how’s everyone doin today?
Sdn, I agree with nyg
DesertBunny, count me in for the LA meetup!
NYC SB, are you wall street barbie?
Hi Viking. Does that mean you are local to SoCal? Or just trying to escape the snow.
I’d love to go to the Chicago meetup, but I’m already doing CES in Vegas. Anyone going to CES?
Eric welcome back, long time no hear
Eric~ Hey how are you?
SDN~ I agree we should know who is going… ::D
NYC SB~ I would love to go to that meet and greet….
hi everyone!
james.m: HHHmmmm…I admit I to paranoid about everyone’s privacy but I like take the trust given me seriously. What about an email to all that are attending with the blog name or “lurker”?
Hi Everyone!
DesertBunny:
Happy Belated Birthday!
Re: Chicago Dinner Attendees
Not sure why the list of people is such a big secret….the only 2 people who have confirmed on the blog are the 2 SD’s “hosting”. I can’t imagine why the SBs would request that the “list” be kept a “secret”. Especially since the place isn’t being mentioned on the blog. Just my 2 cents.
How about a reverse list?
People not going:
Beach_Girl
SDN – my personal feelings..which may not be well taken – but here goes. I have NO idea who the mysterious lurker is – and even though I have been a bit more bold in linking my profile as of late – I am very leery of someone I know NOTHING about and meeting with them – man or woman…I KNOW all of you enough and feel comfortable enough to meet you…(if you are undercover you are all damn good
) – just wouldn’t want fox news to show up 
I’ve given up on keeping up.
But I wanted to mention this. I completely agree with NYGent. I didn’t really know anyone there before I showed up at the dinner but I felt comfortable doing so because I had been able to see who was going, make a point of reading their posts and having an idea of their personality.
Plus, both the Gents were so charming and sweet via email, I couldn’t resist putting faces to the (blog) names.
Oh good grief….
I’m going to Chicago! There I said it….whew
TXSB & Muse: I guess my view is if they wanted it know they were attending on the blog they could have posted. None of them have.
I also notice that none that want the list posted, other than james.m, are asking for me to post their name.
I don’t mean to be offensive but if the attendies want it posted please post your name or send me an email saying “post my name for me”.
I am morning then willing to send an email as mentioned above.
SDN~ oh not going or not invited?
LASB – Not anymore I’m afraid, I’m working overseas, so I don’t get to LA as often as I would like to, but I will be there during the entire February atleast, maybe longer..
NYGent – Hey, good to see you as well. It’s been crazy busy with work so haven’t had much time for fun stuff like this
what’ve I missed?
BeachGirl – Doin alright thanks
how are u?
Hey TXSB
I agree with Muse and Taz. With that said, I appreciate the information not being posted publically on the blog as none of us have any idea who is ‘lurking’.
I can’t make it to Chicago
I’ll be elsewhere that day.
Anna: Thanks for throwing me under the bus…just teasing.
Beach: Was just teasing you since you said you wanted to know who was going.
I still stand by everyone that wants the blog to know has let them know.
I want to go… just don’t know if I can yet. Same goes for TX.
SDN ~ Sorry, I couldn’t take it anymore
NYC – Perfect! I will plan for late Feb
LASB – You have mail!
Eric – Fantastic! I am going to start planning
TXSB – Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
SDN~ I might go…. unless I , the crazy blonde from the blog, is not invited
Hi gang!
It’s 7:20am in Western Australia. Going on a river cruise today to catch some area highlights, then out for dinner on the town.
What’s all this I read about a Houston vs Austin vs Dallas meet-up?
My obvious vote is for Dallas; since I noted that Photogirl will be in Big D in a while, why not let her tell you what it’s like afterwards?
TXSB and lisa can make the pitch for Houston after that.
While Austin has that wild and crazy 6th Street action, I note no SBs to sing it’s praises on the blog. A telling situation?
TLG
I am the lurker. Thank you SDN.
Srsly… Lurker sounds so creepy. I prefer shy.
Although it looks like I won’t be able to go to the Chi meet up. If I was a definite I would have said so on the board.
NYGent.- yes!
I am keeping my name. C’mon you can tell it must have taken me forever to come up with such a gem of name.
At this point all opinions have been voiced, I think the chicago organizers and attendees should be left to themselves as to how and if they want to handle and/or publicize. good luck on the event!
Eric:
Hey!! Good to *see* you! May I ask where overseas you’re at? If you’d rather not say, I totally understand.
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SDN:
I completely understand your point. But as you mentioned, the SBs that’re attending aren’t coming out to confirm that they’re gong (I guess Anna is the first one), and I just find that odd. It’s a totally different “feel” than seeing the NYC group plan it together on the blog (seeing the girls talk about outfits, dresses etc). I guess I just don’t get it.
DesertBunny, excellent
looking forward to it!
TLG – I can sing the praises of Austin…it’s a great city (and not just because UT is there). It has grown so much and become very cosmopolitan while maintaining that quintessential ‘Texan’ feel.
I only prefer San Antonio because I have family there – but it’s a quick drive.
TXSB – Yeah good to *see* you as well ! I’m located in Sweden atm, which is also where I’m from originally, but work brings me around most parts of Europe, just got back from a month in London for example
I’ll announce that I’m trying to go. I just have to sort out some logistical things with work and life. Fingers crossed though.
Taz: For what my opinion is worth I actually spoke to the lurker on the phone and feel comfortable with her. But hell you have a sexy voice and I am buying you a snuggie and a happy meal. ** lurker you do have a sexy voice **
Anna: I was teasing you and I know you know that. I think everyone that wants to post can post all about themselves on the blog – where they are going, when, why, etc. What I don’t agree with is for me to get an email from them and then for ME to post about it.
poptart: You aren’t the luker sugar.
NYGent: Thank you.
Photo:
You’re booty better be at the Texas meet!
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TLG:
Hey! Very jealous of you (being in Australia right now!).
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Re: Texas meet up
Not really sure what the big deal is b/t Houston, Austin, Dallas, SA. I’m in Houston…..it takes 2 hours to drive to Austin and 3 hours to Dallas. The plane ride b/t Dallas and Houston is 40 minutes. For those of us who’re in Texas, unless there’s a schedule conflict as in you’ll be out of Texas at that time OR need to work that day…..not sure why the distance would be a issue (for those who live in Texas). Once again…..my 2 cents.
I leave for a tea break and everyone shows up! Hi to all.
When is the TX meet taking place?
There isn’t a date yet for TX – just trying to figure out the city (unless I missed something)
Oh good -sigh of relief-
sorry I didn’t think I was but if I was I would have hated to make anyone uncomfortable.
Rawr!
My bad!
For the record, I’m a definite no for Chicago. Nothing personal, but schedule doesn’t permit.
I wish I could make the Texas Meet Up…I’ve never been to Texas
My SD has promised to fly me OUT of whatever city the get-together is.
Anna Molly says:
I wish I could make the Texas Meet Up…I’ve never been to Texas
You haven’t missed much
Hey AM – Been a while – Me too actually, never been either
NYGent – How about SoCal in late Feb? A little sunshine?
Lisa – BE NICE!!! Some of us are from Texas and LOVE it
Eric:
London and now Sweden….wow….am very jealous!
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Lisa:
You’re leaving tomorrow for NY right? Have a safe flight and amazing trip!
desert: possibility for late february.
TXSB, Don’t be!
London = Rain, rain and oh yeah, rain..
Sweden = Cold, snow, rain, snow, and cold
What I wouldn’t give to take a trip to LA for xmas!
I’ve been in Texas for 34 years, Brownsville 11 years, Houston 23 years, it’s not the place to be
Thanks TXSB, yes this time tomorrow night i’ll be far from Texas
Anna – 2 out of 3 aint bad!!
I have to agree with Taz on the lurker! No offence to anyone but it takes a whole lot more effort to attend a meet than post on the blog. If i didnt talk to you guys why would i want to meet ye?? And again no offence to anyone i just wouldnt be 100% comfortable, it is a small world out there!!
I LOVE London, been there 4 times, my parents are going in March
I love London as well, but why does it always have to be such shitty weather?
Eric – dont think iv been on blog same time as you! Hi
Lisa – I’ll give you that on Houston – I lived there for 4 years – won’t ever go back. But, there are nice places. I like Dallas and Austin and SA
Yes, let’s do the SoCal/LA meetup in Feb. All you snowbirds can come and thaw out a bit. D-bunny and I will try to make sure we get that 85 degree feb heat wave while you are here.
thanks for the vote, it’s office Houston sucks
Eric, The last two times I was in London Mar 2000 and 2003 the weather was great, my umbrella never left the hotel. Anyway the gloom and rain are fun. It doesn’t rain hard like it does here, just a mist, quite nice
Brownsville is awful, and Houston isn’t that much better. I can’t fault Lisa that opinion, but the idea that those two cities define a state, I can find fault with. The 3 cities being mentioned are different, with Austin being drastically different.
Hi Eric
Nice to see you again. How is the SM search going?
Yeah, 2 out of 3 is pretty good
Eric:
LOL @ the weather descriptions! I’ve never been to Europe so I’ll take your word for it.
Re: Houston
I guess I’m the only one who doesn’t think Houston is bad. LOL! I grew up near Dallas and have been in Htown for a few years…live near downtown. I don’t see what makes it so horrible. Perhaps it’s my lack of “travel” experience.
TXSB – the only reason I’d never go back is summer. 110 degrees and 100% humidity – outdoor SAUNA!
Hi TLG!!! Sooo jealous – I am literally SHIVERING right now
BLOG! – I would LOVE to go to the Midwest meet – logistics ‘may’ not be good…time will tell.
Poptart – YOU are the mysterious lurker??!! Lol..yes lurker sounds kind of…pervasive
SDN if you tell each other who is coming – it MAY be an incentive for others to come as well 
Your meet = your call – I do not mind my name mentioned as a ‘maybe’ at all..as long as the ‘details’ are kept private…
Awww Lisa – that is sweeet!
Can’t wait to hear about your DATE!!!!
Eric – lol you may have a bit more competition – it seems many of the blog SB’s are developing bromances (right term??? lol) and perhaps could venture out and look for a SM…
TXSB: Move over to the Springbranch Gessner road area, you won’t like it.
Thanks Taz
The only problem with Houston is the humidity. It has a nice down town area, some amazing restaurants, and a decent night life.
TT – apparently I am NOT the lurker! SDN cleared that up. Because I have never spoke to SDN and do not have a sexy voice!
Not if you live in my neighborhood and have no car, then you’re under lock at key at dark. The summers are unbearable, downtown is boring.
I sound like a little girl on the phone…
Poptart:
LOL…..if we ever meet IRL, I think I’d like to judge for myself whether or not you have a sexy voice!
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Lisa:
You’re right. Living in a bad/unsafe neighborhood can make things seem unpleasant…but that could happen at any city (it’s not specific to Houston). And yes, downtown is boring….but Midtown, Kirby/Shepherd, and Galleria isn’t (at least not IMO).
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ATX:
Agree on humidity…..*sigh* It does terrible things to my hair during summer…
AM – I think I sound like a little girl on the phone too
I actually have telemarketers call and ask me for my mom!! But then…guys say my voice is sexy…how’s that – sexy l’il girl 
lol…
TXSB, down town Houston has a couple things going for it right now, it’s in the process of a serious make over (and a much needed one). I like to visit Houston, I just won’t live there.
If we’re going to show off the best Texas has to offer, it’s Austin or San Antonio’s river walk.
IM – I don’t believe we have, nice to *see* you
Lisa – Guess you got lucky then, I haven’t been as fortunate the last couple of times I’ve been there…
AM – Good to see you as well! The search is a struggle as always, but I survive
how’s ur search going?
TXSB – Europe is beautiful, you have to go some time.. Northern Europe is too cold for my taste most parts of the year..
TT – Yeah tell me about it, story of my life, all bromances and no romance
My search is going very well, thank you for asking
AM, Glad to hear ur doing well
yes the weather was great the last two times. They were even selling ice cream over by Bunkingham Palace. What I like is the walkability of London and riding the tube. I get so much exercise when I go there that I can eat a box of Mr kiplings pies every night and lose weight, lol
Lisa I hear ya, I walk a lot more in general when I’m in Europe compared to when I’m in the states, especially LA where everyone drives even if they’re just going across the street lol
Sounds just like the people in Houston.
very exciting: turner classic movies showing tonite the original version of gone with the wind as it premiered in Atlanta 70 years ago tonite, with original score, intermission, etc.
Eric–Not everyone is guilty of that. I mean, it’s getting better here and I take the subway a lot. But ok, I suppose I’ve driven across the street before, and more than once. hehe.
NY Gent – that is one of my favorite movies! They did the same thing a long time ago in San Antonio – showed the original version complete with intermission – it was great.
NYGent ~ Thank you for sharing….I know what I’ll be doing tonight
CA Dreamin: must admit it makes me cry in several spots every time, esp. the end. I still think Vivian Leigh’s performance maybe the greatest female one in film history.
Midwest/NYGent/FloRida/SDN etc thanks so much for the photo comments! am glad to finally have some that meet with y’alls approval…
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napa: “dino wino” *giggles*
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SDinATX/Naughty Molly: i can’t yodel either… but i am learning to throat sing…
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SWMinTX: i would travel most anywhere for two weekends a month… but i’m free from 1pm friday until 4pm monday so it’s not so hard
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NYGent: find an SB who can fly porter or some other downtown commuter airline and then there’s far less lead time and such at airports…
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that said, i agree really. unless you are making 4-5 day weekends out of it it starts getting ugly fast. it helps a lot if there’s direct flights and “easy” airports at both ends… aka small
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omg i’m finally done the LAST blog…
ATX:
Just for the record, if the debate is b/t SA and Austin, my vote goes for Austin for 2 reasons:
1) It’s on about a 2 hours drive…SA would be 3.5.
2) While there, I can also visit my sibling at UT.
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Cleo:
Hey!
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Eric:
Believe me I have a big list of places I want to visit….$$ and companionship seems the be the big issue.
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I’m off to meet a friend for dinner…see you guys in a few hours.
great line from Mammy in the movie (and words of wisdom for the site): “What gentlemen says and what they thinks is two diff’rent things!”
Evening sugars! 446 comments since 8am…can anyone provide the condensed version? I know james was a little wound up about something
Have you ever suspected a potential sugar was trying to scam you? What are the warning signs you look out for? I’ve been able to screen the photo collectors and fake daddies pretty easily thanks to the blog.
Do you have any tips for fellow sugar daddies or sugar babies on how to avoid playing the fool in Sugarland?
Trust your instincts, if it’s too good to be true…it is, and keep your self respect.
Do you have any sugar news to report?
Sugarland is sweet!
Very true! I’m impressed NYGent
NYGent ~ Mammy is so right!
Heya Midnight!! We can be mistresses together!!
I’m in the mood for funnel cake…
Hi Midwest – I was just reviewing some of the chat and saw that Sincere had come up with a name for me!
Sincere – thank you for the suggestion – I hadn’t even THOUGHT of that one! Very nice
WOW, this blog just started and already I’m behind!! HEY Everyone!! I got a few more pot.s in the email phase.. lets see if they are for real… or they go POOF on me too!! Geezzz if ya can’t handle a hot sexy blonde, DON’T CONTACT ME IN THE FIRST PLACE.
(LOL laughing at myself)
with powdered sugar….. yummm
Oh, and maybe some strawberries
Hello All!
Lets Get This PARTY STARTED!!!!!
Now some one is finally talking about a meet in CA, YES!!!
Oh how I wish we could all just have one big happy meet…..I know … I know…in a “perfect world” right? But it doesn’t hurt to have wishful thinking…..hmmmm..sigh.
I know exactly what you mean 2Chic – I wish I lived close enough to all of these meetings to attend them all!
Hi Irish! I think we have some catching up to do based on earlier conversations!
CA – What’s the new name and why aren’t you using it???
TLG- Very, very, very nice! Send some of that tropical weather our way!
Lisa: Have fun and enjoy every minute of it!!!!! You deserve it!
NYC SB – Thanks! I think so too. Great sense of humor as well. That’s all I’m saying for now *protective stance*
Sincere – Love the sb search advice. Could work for the ladies too. It is a bit practical and I think NYGent likes to borrow Cupid’s arrows, but maybe he’s ready to explore new approaches!
Midwest – not sure what your referring to … im always lost and need catching up to do!
Midwest – it was Californication SB – I stuck with CA Dreamin b/c I’m boring
LOL
Lisa – Woo Hoo the day is almost over! Have safe travels and a great time with SD. You have waited sooooooo long. In your case, patience really is a virtue. As for TX, lived in DFW for 3 years and loved every minute of it.
NYGent and AM (who are you today?) – I *LOVE* GWTW! Sometimes I long to live in that period…for a week or so
I love the old south except for the slavery.
Desert Bunny & LASB… add me to the list.
Any one have big plans for New Years Eve?
Irish -it may have been on the last blog…the ladies have been teasing the SDs endlessly with talk of lap dances, slumber parties, girls only make out sessions and the like. We may have ducked under the radar. James was a bit worked up
Midnight Midwest Mistress~ Hi,,,, Well We only did it to help
Hi everyone, hair is done, nails are next and god I need sleep!!!!
HI all
AM: glad to hear you’ll be in Chicago. So will MMM and I.
Photo and Muse: try real hard to get there, please
2Chic sounds good.
Ah yes Midnight we did miss out on that! Usually any mention of a whip and im all over the blog! Haha
2chic – House party me thinks, new eves year is too busy and over rated to go anywhere where i live!
Hey – it was NYG hitting on NCG and all the suggestions from the ladies that had me LMAO
Irish, that sounds fun, house parties are great!
Beach – you are definitely invited
Midwest: i thought it was can’t borrow cupid’s wings because struck by cupid’s arrows . . . Romeo and Juliet ACt I Scene 4 . . .
NC Gent and NYGent – Somebody better warn Gemi – Baltimore is about to get interesting!
I guess I missed the party. Lots happening while I’m gone… why do I have to have a life away from my computer? I miss all the fun.
I know there are a few lurkers. Ya just never know who is reading and not posting… be careful of what you say!
Lisa, Congrats!! and good luck.
If I had the $$ to travel, I’d go to one of the meets, but it just isnt’ going to happen anytime soon. Got some catching up to do with my checkbook. I love to fly, flyme anywhere… maybe I should look into getting a job with an airline as a flight attendant…
New Years Eve… I might be out west, but skiing is not going to happen… the idiot broke his foot!!
NYGent – you missed your calling dear!
Beach – Hi!!!
AM – Yeah – so glad you’re coming!
James – I thought we had all that worked out! I must try harder next time!
AM – You are making me soooo hungry!
Lisa- Have a safe and fabulous trip! I can’t wait to hear about it when you get back.
I wish I had a house big enough to host everyone!
James – Meeting you is definitely one of the draws of attending. I’ve heard (and read) such good things already.
Good Evening Sweet Sugars !
Gemini29: I think I know who your blog crush is (sneaky grin)
Irish Mistress: I like the new name!
Lisa: Have fun on your trip
I have stopped trying to catch up on the blog(s) I missed too much, that is what happens when you are sick and work is busy
Muse – why thank you! why not drop me a line at my profile so I can put a profile on you?
OK MCM, fess up. Throw a name out there!
ESB – Bummer about the skiing, but you could still enjoy the lodge!
Gemi – Good luck! I hope the blog crush is who I think!!!!!
ACM – Do tell!
Hi MMM and James ~ I’m glad I’m coming too! I’ve never been to Chicago so I’m very excited
Hi Muse
How can any of us choose just one of these great blog SDs to crush on? They are all so charming!! Great words of wisdom, and they do such a great job of keeping us entertained!! But would love to hear more about who has a crush on whom.. I’m a hopeless romantic and would love to get things going for a romance to blossom on here.
Heya Rudy, its not actually new – i just brought it out of retirement! (back a good few blogs now!)
Hmmmm, blog crush..
I would love to know if any of the blog SD’s have crushes on any of the blog SB’s. Do you think they would ever tell? I doubt they would.
James~ thank you…. I am thinking!
Midnight Midwest Mistress~ love the new name!
Anna: Hi!
James.m: Here’s a small hint….check the previous blog convo
MMM & Irish: I think we are the three Mistresses of the blog!!! I am in such wonderful company
Tantalizing Taz: You did remember me with my new name:)
Anna – excellant point you never hear of any of the SDs having a blog crush!! Excluding james of course!
AM – GREAT question! So SD’s….anyone feel like spilling on a blog crush?
Irish ~ I don’t think it’s fair at all…I want to know…right now! Don’t make me call Naughty Molly over here….lol
That’s right fellas, fess up, who is “your” blog crush? Inquiring minds want to know……..
They will never tell….they have to be all quiet about it..poo
I know AM – think we got that ‘deer in the headlights’ look out of them with that question?
MCM – i never even noticed that! The Three Mistresses, One for all and all for one!
1st, I guess I better say Midwest!
But as far as blog restricted crushes go, there are several others
there seems to be a dead silence hanging over the blog
James – you had better say that is right! More dodgying objects
Anna – i really do think you have scared the SDs away this time…
*crickets chirp*
That’s because we are waiting for the rest of the SD’s to reveal their blog crushes
Good answer James. I met Midwest at the NYC dinner…your a lucky guy
I would love to hear who the SDs are crushing on!!!
Kidding…just happened to pop back in here and caught the recent topic of discussion.
I do have a couple myself
The SDs could pick 5 SBs each and there would be still some of us left floating around!
Blog crushes!!!! hummmm
I’d say something, but my Momma taught me a shovel is not the right tool for getting out of a hole
Irish Mistress: I am so behind on the blog reading, I am glad you brought the name out of retirement:)