Happy Mother’s Day to all you Sugar Babies out there who happen to have babies of your own! Mother’s Day for a single mom is not always the celebration it is for those moms who are in a traditional relationship or marriage. Especially if you have young children or have no co-parenting support from your babies’ fathers.
A single mom has to play every role: the nurturer and the disciplinarian; the team mom and the coach; the mommy and the daddy. You have to be a strong, amazing woman to take on those roles, and rarely do you get the credit you deserve. Most single moms don’t have the option to stay at home with their kids. Child support can only get you so far, if it comes on time, or at all – so what’s a girl to do?
Why, find a Sugar Daddy of course!
Why would you want a dead beat baby daddy when you don’t have to? If he can’t be there emotionally, physically, or financially, save yourself the heartache and get a Sugar Daddy instead. There are great men out there who will appreciate you for who you are and a Sugar Daddy will be more mature, responsible, and financially supportive than what you are used to.
Almost 1 in 4 Sugar Babies on SeekingArrangement.com are single moms making mothers our second biggest demographic after college students. Really, that shouldn’t be too surprising considering the unreliability of child support payments and the state of the economy. In the US, over $100 billion in child support is owed to single mothers, and never collected. The average child support payment for a single mother is about $300 a month, that’s $10 a day… hardly enough to pay for food. Raising a child is expensive especially when you have to factor in rent, child-care, and education. Doing it alone is difficult no matter your age or circumstances.
However, many women have come to the realization that having a Sugar Daddy can make the task of taking on the job of a single mom much easier.
Meaghan, a 21 year old sugar baby from Massachusetts, is able to attend school and stay home with her son full-time thanks to the help of her Sugar Daddies. “My son’s needs take up alot of my income never mind school, I at one time found myself in a constant financial struggle to the point that I was taking out student loans just so I could keep up with bills while in school because I was only able to work so many hours. Then one of my close friends introduced me to this website, and I quickly realized that this could help take some of the financial stress off my back as well as allow me to have a good time while doing so instead of breaking my back at work and never seeing my son.”
Meaghan doesn’t have a relationship with her son’s father, though he does see his child occasionally. She doesn’t receive child support and, instead of looking for companionship and falling into another relationship with someone her own age, she chose to seek someone more mature. ”I feel as a single mom these things are important because I am Mommy and daddy so I have to work twice as hard to make him happy. Being a sugar baby while I’m a college student allows me to work a little less so he can get his needs/wants fulfilled and he won’t have to miss quality bonding time with me as well.”
We are advocates for women empowerment, and believe that settling should never be an option. We encourage our Sugar Babies to continue their educations, network and build a better life for themselves. It’s all about who you know, and opportunities can come in all packages, just like relationships do. The relationships on SeekingArrangement.com vary greatly from temporary romances to friendships and mentoring and marriage. Everyone is here for a different reason, but we truly believe there is someone here for everyone. Just think of how much better the world would be if more people sought out mutually beneficial relationships, instead of only thinking of themselves.
We applaud all the single moms who are using this site as a platform to make connections and form relationships that help enrich and better their lives. Just because life didn’t turn out the way you had planned, doesn’t mean you can’t have the life you deserve. We hope you have someone in your life who appreciates all you do, Happy Mother’s Day!
FACT: Did you know that the week after Mother’s Day, more single mothers join SeekingArrangement.com to begin their search for a sugar daddy than any other week of the year?
Are you a Single Mom? If so, how has being a Sugar Baby changed your life for the better? How do you juggle being a mom and a sugar baby?
Sugar Daddies: Have you had a Sugar Baby who was a single mom?
Sugar Babies, what advice would you give our single mother sugar babies?