I’m still caught by surprise, by the number of Sugar Babies on the blog who are having sex on the first date and then wondering why he didn’t follow through with an arrangement. Ladies, no matter how good his offer sounds, or how many drinks you’ve had… never ever give it up on the first date.
This should be a general rule of thumb in any manner of dating. But especially when money is exchanging hands, or a financial arrangement is on the table. Sex is going to be a part of most sugar arrangements, but that doesn’t mean it has to start with it. All men generally aspire to sleep with a woman they are interested in, that’s the whole point of dating. But he can’t expect you to give it up on the first date, and you can’t expect him to respect you if you do.
Take the time to get to know each other, and build the anticipation up for intimacy. Never sell yourself short, or treat your relationship like a transaction. Sex with a Sugar Daddy should be enjoyable; something you want to do, not something you feel like you have to do.
Ladies: If you’ve ever intimate with your sugar daddies, how long do you wait?
Men: what do you think about sex on a first date? What are your chances of going out on date number 2?